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Wake-Up Call Wednesday: Desire, Belief and YOU (Video)

Wake-Up Call Wednesday: Desire, Belief and YOU (Video)

Dear One,

Happy Wake-Up Call Wednesday, love bug!

I was talking with a client the other day who was contemplating a change in her career. These words came out of my mouth “It’s hard to want it, if you don’t believe you can have it.”

Uh huh. I shot this video today for you to talk about how you can uncover those hidden desires and raise your belief that YES you can have em! Click below to watch it!


May all your desires come true.

With unstoppable enthusiasm,




P.S. In the video I ask you to go public about one of your desires and the Big Fat Lie that is getting in the way of your belief that you can, indeed, have it. So come on and let me (and you!) know…I double dog dare ya! Comment below 🙂



By | 2017-05-25T10:23:18+00:00 September 18th, 2012|Coaching|17 Comments

About the Author:

Amy Ahlers, The Wake-Up Call Coach, is on a mission to stop women and mamas from being so darn hard on themselves. She is the bestselling author of Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves & Reform Your Inner Mean Girl and she's been a Certified Life Coach for over 16 years. Amy is the co-creator of transformational programs such as Inner Mean Girl Reform School, Find Your Calling & Visionary Ignition Switch. Amy is passionate about helping soulful mamas embrace the messiness and magic of motherhood in her truth telling community, You can often find Amy holding hands with the love of her life and husband, Rob, as they chase after their firecracker daughters, Annabella and Evie Rose. She resides in the San Francisco Bay Area with her family and rescue mutt, Batman.


  1. wendy merron September 19, 2012 at 8:17 am

    Love your energy Amy!
    You’ve got a great message. I totally agree that when our thoughts aren’t in alignment with out feelings, we just don’t get what we want. Thank you for sharing it.

    • kriti September 19, 2012 at 8:39 am

      i want to go to abroad to continue my further studies but there are just so many “but(s)” in between.. :-/
      but this video sure helped me… 🙂
      thank you Amy!!

    • Amy Ahlers September 21, 2012 at 8:28 am

      Thanks so much Wendy!! 🙂

    • Amy Ahlers September 21, 2012 at 8:29 am

      You are ALL SEEN in your desire. May your belief raise to match it….let me know how it manifests!!!

  2. JO September 19, 2012 at 9:03 am

    I hope to get a new job with a big bonus. I want an awesome and fair boss. 10 hour day shifts 4 days a week! No holidays and weekends.

    Here’s to this desire!!!


  3. Neshika Bell September 19, 2012 at 9:05 am

    My desire is to be a best-selling, seven-figure earning, light-bearing, life-transforming author and coach!

    The big fat lies I keep telling myself are that I’m too young, I don’t have the skills or knowledge, and I’m not cut out for the limelight that this desire will bring.

    What my Inner Wisdom (what I call my Capital Self) knows is that being a light-bearer has no relation to age or physical ability, and that stepping into my light is what I was born to do; it’s the only way to become a light-bearer for others.

    Thank you Amy for this wake-up call video.
    My nugget from it: raise my self-belief system to match this desire that so deeply inspires me.

  4. Carolyn September 19, 2012 at 9:05 am

    I have a couple of them right now that I am slowly working at. 1) I need to lose 35 lbs. to get to my ideal weight and stay there. I was there 5 years ago and maintained it for less than 4 months. My BFL is that I can’t do it, I am destined to be fat and overweight because 50% of my family is. 2) i want a college degree. I convinced myself that I wasn’t smart enough even though I work at a university and get a great deal on tuition. Finally after working here for 14 years I signed up for my first class. Now I have close to half my credits done but I am still afraid to take the math and science classes necessary for a degree. BTW — I am so stupid that I have all As and 1 B so why do I keep telling myself the BFL that I am not smart enough.

  5. Trece Wyman September 19, 2012 at 9:26 am

    I want to live near the beach. My BFL is that it is too expensive, I’m too old and poor and broken, and I don’t deserve it. I do not deserve to be happy. When you said that, during the video, I felt such HUGE resonance within me.I don’t think I ever considered that a possibility before. Thank you so much.

  6. Deonesea September 19, 2012 at 9:59 am

    My Great Desire is to get my brilliant educational ritual theatre performance about the Goddess (stage production) off of paper and out of my head and onto the global stage!!! Like…yesterday!!! And my BFL that I am busting through is that I don’t have the resources or access to the money needed to make it happen in all of the glory that I can see it in my vision. I am taking a leap and creating a kickstarter campaign (steps in progress right now) to fund this vision and serve the planet with the Divine Feminine.

  7. Leigh September 19, 2012 at 10:01 am

    The desire I have that is so hard to believe is to be happy, just to be happy in myself and my life. The big fat lie is that I don’t deserve to be happy, that it’s just not for me, like a present with someone else’s name on the tag.

  8. Cynthia September 19, 2012 at 10:27 am

    My desire is to change the way we teach math in this country. My two BFLs are: The way to do that has already been written and said; I need the security of my company job (insurance specifically) because I’m a single mom.

  9. Jessica September 19, 2012 at 12:44 pm

    My desire is to be a professional published best-selling fiction series author and to be able to easily support myself and my luxury lifestyle while doing it full time.

  10. heather September 19, 2012 at 8:43 pm

    A dear friend sent me this link and it spoke to me in the perfect way at just the right time. My desire is to marry the love of my life. My own self doubt and feelings that I am not worthy are getting in the way. I am trying to chase the negative thoughts and focus on my desire filling myself w love. Some days its hard and I was having one of those tough moments. Then I got this link and heard your message. It made me smile and it reminded me that I can do this…i deserve this…i deserve to be happy. Thank you for the message

  11. roberta September 20, 2012 at 2:07 am

    My desire is to open an art school the nourishes and empowers young soul and old into confident beautiful people

  12. Sally September 20, 2012 at 6:23 am

    My desire is to generate income through my passions of writing and painting- and hop back over the pond for some family adventures abroad. My BFL is that this is a selfish endeavor, lowest priority on the totem of my life, as everyone else seems to need me for “more important work.”

  13. Kristin Betenson September 21, 2012 at 9:37 am

    My desire is to be able to stay home with my 3 amazing children so I know they are raised with the values and the beliefs of our family, and to also be able to exceed the income I was bringing home before I left my job over a year ago. I have two masters degrees and I was working in a position that only required a HS diploma. I felt over worked and under valued. I want to feel like I don’t have to choose between being a good mother and being a career girl.

  14. melissa p November 8, 2012 at 2:19 pm

    My desire is that I no longer want to work a physician assistant in family medicine but have a yearning to something different; would love to open a yoga studio that provides day care for children (so moms can go) but also that incorporates other tools/classes/groups etc that support women and especially mothers. Want to make it more than just a yoga studio but a place where women can get nourishment. My lie is that I am too old, am not trained as a yoga teacher, and dont have the capital to pull it off. Fear failing and not being able to support my own family. fear walking away from stable job.

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