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The Wake-Up Call Show: Love The Unlovable Video

Dear One,

If you’re anything like me, you have situations, people, parts of yourself that feel unlovable.

What feels unlovable to you? Your thighs, your bank account, the mistake you made 5 years ago, the way you lost it with your child, that you haven’t found that soulmate yet?

When we declare IT is unlovable, it’s like we’re withholding our love from the child that needs it the most. How about we find a way to love the unlovable instead? I created this short video to help you to love the unlovable. Click BELOW to watch it.

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I’m sending you so much love…especially to the situations and parts of you that feel unlovable.

xoxxo,

 

P.S. I hope you’ll give yourself the gift of watching today’s video…and that you’ll share it with your loved ones and leave me a comment too. I love hearing from you!

Please let me know the unlovable you’re now loving in the comments below!

“Matching Girls” (Wake-Up Call Wednesday)

Dear One,

I was in my bed fast asleep dreaming about sugar plums and roller coasters, when my 5 1/2 year old daughter, Annabella, rushes in exclaiming, “Mommy, we can be matching girls!”  She was so excited I could hardly stand it. She had discovered a pair of white jeans in the latest box of hand-me-downs from her cousin…a perfect match for the pair of white jeans I had been sporting the last few weeks.

Matching girls indeed.

After I got over my initial feeling of, “OMG could she be more adorable?” I felt a wave of panic swelling…she really does want to be just like me.

I know her intense desire to be just like mommy might fade into something entirely new as she reaches the tween phase. But for now, I have a little witness in my household. A human being that will do as a do, NOT as I say. Who will emulate the good, the bad and the ugly.

It’s the biggest motivator I have to be the best person I can be and heal the habits, the Big Fat Lies, the Inner Mean Girls that can torture me. It’s why I have my own coaches – my spiritual and personal coach, Elisabeth Manning, and my business and partnership coach, Alexis Neely.  Why I make sure I almost always have kale in the fridge to balance out the dark chocolate. Why I strive to do my morning mediation nearly every day (check out Annabella striking a mediation pose in the pic on the right!).

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Some of mama’s good habits are wearing off. And I know some of the bad ones are too. Gulp.

I want Annabella to grow up practicing unconditional self-love and self-compassion. I want her to know that she is loved and that The Universe is a friendly place. I want her to find a vocation, a passion, a calling and make an incredible living from it. I want her to fall in love with a soul mate who treats her like a queen. I want her to find adventure and to make a difference in the world. I want her to be kind, compassionate, and downright happy.

And I want every single one of those things for me too. So I keep working on my sh*t. And hoping that I can model more good than bad. That the “matching girls” desire leads to Annabella thriving.

What about you, darling? What are you modeling for little witnesses in your life…your child, your niece or nephew, your intern, your friend’s kids? Let me know your dreams for them below!

With so much love,

 

 

P.S. I hope you had a chance to listen to my interview with my soul sister, Dr. Lissa Rankin, about her new book, Mind Over Medicine. It will blow your mind and empower you to heal yourself and write your own prescription.

Go here to listen to the interview and pick up your copies of Mind Over Medicine.

P.P.S. I’m sending you so much love right now. Can you feel it? Let it remind you that you are doing a good job, sweetie.

I’m always honored by your comments and when you share my posts.

Let me know the dreams that you have for the witnesses in your life!

Is there scientific proof you can heal yourself? (Interview with Dr. Lissa Rankin – a gift for you!)

Dear One,

What do you think, darling? Do you believe you can heal yourself? Do you believe that if you ditch those Big Fat Lies and start turning to your Inner Wisdom’s truth that not only will you become happier, but that you’ll also become healthier?

Is there truly scientific proof that you can heal yourself?

That is exactly what my dear soul sister and business partner, Dr. Lissa Rankin, explores in her brand spanking new book, Mind Over Medicine: Scientific Proof You Can Heal Yourself. I was so blown away by Lissa’s book, that I decided to interview her about this groundbreaking work and gift it to you.

>>CLICK BELOW TO LISTEN TO MY INTERVIEW WITH LISSA & BUY YOUR COPIES OF MIND OVER MEDICINE!<<

In Mind Over Medicine, Lissa took a deep dive into the medical literature to find out if she could prove, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that the mind can heal the body. Seeking to move the notion of self-healing from the realm of the magical or even metaphysical, Lissa searched for evidence of a clear physiological mechanism that explains how positive thoughts and emotions might translate into cure for the body.

What she discovered blew my mind and her mind. You see, loads of data proves that the mind can believe itself well. In clinical trials, it’s called “the placebo effect.” Patients treated with placebos don’t just feel better. It’s not just “in their heads.” They’ve actually had warts disappear, bronchi dilate, colons become less inflamed, hair growth on the heads of bald men, ulcers heal, and other measurable physiological phenomena.

Here’s the kicker…we also know that the opposite is true, and the mind can think itself sick, which researchers call “the nocebo effect.” Get this…when patients are given injections with saline and told it is chemotherapy, they vomit and lose their hair. Crazy, right?

By the time you finish reading Mind Over Medicine, you will have diagnosed the root causes of any health conditions you might face and written your own Prescription, a self-guided action plan intended to make your body ripe for spontaneous remission.

This book will change how you think about health forever, and once you realize that how long you live is related to the health of your thoughts, beliefs, and feelings, you’ll want to share it with everyone you care about. This is kick ass stuff!!

I can’t wait for you to hear the interview (above), buy tons of copies of this incredible book, Mind Over Medicine, and continue to heal your mind, body & soul!

With lots of love,

 

 

 

P.S. Need more incentive to pick up your copies of Mind Over Medicine today? To celebrate the launch of Mind Over Medicine, Hay House is hosting a Live Online Event with Lissa Rankin and Martha Beck – Make Your Body Ripe for Miracles. And when you buy your copy of Lissa’s book…you’ll receive this event for FREE! MOM cover

In this live online event, Lissa and Martha will teach you:

·    An easy, relaxing activity that takes only one hour per week and can help you live up to fourteen years longer

·    One simple thing that can benefit your health more than eliminating cigarettes

·    A factor you may consider unrelated to the health of the body which can add more than seven years to your life

·    A gloriously fun activity which can dramatically reduce the number of doctor’s visits you’ll need in your lifetime

·    A specific shift in your mental attitude which can increase your life expectancy by ten years

·    And there’s so much more…

YES! This Live Online Event ($79 value) is available to you at no cost when you purchase a copy of Lissa’s new book, Mind Over Medicine at any book retailer.  Go here for details.

The Wake-Up Call Show: Are there good men out there?

Dear One,

I know so many women in the world who wonder if there are good men out there…if men really care….if men are showing up and doing their work. There are far too many people perpetuating the Big Fat Lie, “All men are jerks!”

So today, my darling, I want to celebrate one of the best men I know, who is celebrating his 70th birthday today; my dad.

My father, Russ Grant, has shown me, from the moment I was conceived, that men are good. Men are kind. Men are doing their work and care so deeply about the world.

Me with the two best men I know, my dad and husband.

Me with the two best men I know, my dad and husband.

I remember as a little girl pretending to be asleep so that my daddy would carry me up to my room, reminding me that I was taken care of and oh-so-safe.

My dad models how to be in a loving relationship and make a marriage work (my parents have been married for almost 44 years now and they still hold hands), how to go for your dreams, how to give back to your community and how to relax and have fun.

My dad is a Vietnam war vet who learned early on that you never know when your numbers up, so make every moment count. My dad survived living with a wife and two teenage daughters and one full bathroom (yes we had bathroom timers to keep to the shower schedule!). My dad loves to sail on the San Fransisco Bay or relax by the lake in Twain Harte. My dad is always ready and willing to show up and fix your broken screen, or hang that new painting or put up the new shelf (he’ll even bring his own tools). My dad is available for babysitting and sleep overs with his grandchildren at a moments notice. My dad devotes more time and energy each month to giving back than most people do in a lifetime.

So, Dad, Happy 70th Birthday to you. I’m so grateful I chose you to be my dad. And thank you for choosing me to be your daughter. I love you!

I invite you to share below and celebrate one of the good men in your life!

With love,

 

 

P.S. Thank you for celebrating my dad with me…he’s such an extraordinary man who is cherished by his family and community!

P.P.S. I know that many (maybe even most?) don’t have a dad like mine. I count my blessings and realize how lucky I am. And I am taking a stand for more and more men to step up and show up as a Good Man in the world.

Please celebrate a good man in your life below. Let’s collect evidence of all the great men on the planet!

 

The Wake-Up Call Show: Boston, Fear, Love & Kindness

Dear One,

I had an entirely different post I was ready to send you today. I had it all prepped to go and then the tragic events at the Boston Marathon occurred and I felt inspired and compelled to send this to you instead.

I just left the East Coast, was actually boarding my flight home at JFK when the news of the bombings broke. I love the East Coast so much and am sending all the love and light I can muster.

When events like this occur, it is so difficult to process and we can begin to lose hope and faith in humanity
. What I do know is that there is more goodness, more light and more love on this planet than anything else. As Patton Oswalt said in his brilliant facebook post:

The vast majority stands against that darkness and, like white blood cells attacking a virus, they dilute and weaken and eventually wash away the evil doers and, more importantly, the damage they wreak. This is beyond religion or creed or nation. We would not be here if humanity were inherently evil. We’d have eaten ourselves alive long ago.

So when you spot violence, or bigotry, or intolerance or fear or just garden-variety misogyny, hatred or ignorance, just look it in the eye and think, The good outnumber you, and we always will.


So here is what I say we do. Let’s find a way to bring more goodness and kindness into the world TODAY. I challenge you to commit 5 or more acts of kindness today. They don’t need to be big or earth shattering…here’s some ideas:

-let someone go in front of you in traffic or the grocery store
-play peek-a-boo with a crying baby that needs distraction
-pay the toll for the person behind you
-call your mom or aunt or sister or friend and tell them you love them
-take your child to the park, leave your phone at home, and swing on the swings
-take your pooch for a big hike and watch him strut his stuff
-say something kind to yourself that you’ve been longing to hear

Won’t you join me? Let me know your 5+ acts of kindness on my Facebook page and let’s inspire one another. Together we will bring more love and goodness to the world to remind us all that humanity to good.


Sending you light,

P.S. Thank you for being part of the light and goodness in the world. Keep shining and trusting that who you are makes a difference.

Stop Stealing Your Celebrations! (Wake-Up Call Wednesday Video)

Dear One,

When you hit a milestone, reach the finish line, have a peak experience…do you stop and actually celebrate it? Do you acknowledge what a badass you are? Do you wave your hands in the air like you just don’t care, jump up and down and say “I’m SO darn proud of myself!”?

Or do you let your Inner Mean Girl rob you of celebration? Do you just go onto the next thing and never stop and acknowledge what you’ve created?

Check out my latest video and stop robbing yourself of the celebration you deserve.

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I feel so blessed that I had such an amazing trip to the East Coast where I got to meet with agents, lead a sold out mini-workshop and book signing in NYC and reform 50 Inner Mean Girls at Kripalu with my partner, Christine Arylo. Did I stop and celebrate it? You bet your bottom dollar I did! Get the full scoop on my video here!

Sending you much love & celebration,

 

 

 

P.P.S. Moms! Are you tired of being…tired? Do you continue to put on everyone else’s needs before yours? Are you over smelling diapers and dirty socks and just want to stop to smell the roses? Ready to release all those Big Fat Lies you beat yourself up with?!

Join my dear friend, New York Times bestselling author Kristine Carlson, along with 45 other bestselling authors/speakers…including ME!….to get exclusive tips for moms to stress less and enjoy your family more.

Join us for the “‘The Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff for Moms’ Virtual Conference” absolutely FREE!

>>GO HERE so you can stop sweating the small stuff!<<

 

P.P. S. Take a moment right now and put your hand on your heart. Take a deep breath and acknowledge what a beautiful human being you are. You’re doing a great job, sweet one.

I celebrate YOU!

Let me know below about a win and peak experience and let’s celebrate it!

And please do visit my Facebook page this week and continue to acknowledge your wins! :)

 

 

The Wake-Up Call Show: Committed to Struggle Part 2 (Video)

Dear One,

I’m up in the air flying to the Big Apple as you read this…on my way to light up NYC at the REFORM YOUR INNER CRITIC & BECOME YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND event on Thursday night at Namaste Books (RSVP for this FREE self-love event here).

Then I’m heading off to the world famous Kripalu center to co-lead the Inner Mean Girl Reform School LIVE weekend retreat (it’s not too late to join us…GO HERE for the deets).

Now onto the commitment to struggle insanity. Wow was I blown away by the responses I received from last week’s video.  On the video I asked you to rate on a scale of 1-10 how committed you are to STRUGGLE. 66.6% of you rated 7 or higher. That means the majority of us are WAAAY too committed to struggle and drama in our lives.

I was really struck by this. I mean we all say we want ease and peace in our lives, but in reality we are stirring up the drama and struggle in our lives. So here’s what I did…I created 3 steps to help you (and me!) release the commitment to struggle. CLICK BELOW and watch this video now & let the EASE flow in.

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I can’t wait to release my own commitment to struggle and renew my commitment to EASE. Join me!

With love and ease,

 

 


P.S. Inspiration for a Woman’Aspire Pics Soul!

Aspire Magazine just released its “Self-Care for a Woman’s Soul” issue and I’m excited to say I’M IN IT! Check out my article, Big Fat Lies About Self-Care, as well as that of Kristine Carlson, Lisa Marie Rosati, Crystal Andrus and more.

Over 80 pages of love, wisdom & inspiration for women. Peek inside the new issue here: http://bit.ly/AprMay13.

While you’re there be sure to claim YOUR FREE SUBSCRIPTION to Aspire as well as 60+ free gifts from their Team Inspiration partners. It’s all part of Aspire’s global “Mission to Inspire 100,000 Women” campaign.

Leave me a comment below and let me know if you are with me in releasing STRUGGLE and committing to EASE!

Then, post your progress on my Facebook Page this month.

The Wake-Up Call Show: Are You Committed to Struggle, Dear One?

Dear One,

Are you committed to struggle? Do you LOVE the drama? Do you find that no matter what you do, you find yourself putting up a good ole’ fashioned fight, shouting, “Put up your dukes!”?

ME TOO!

I realized this pattern in myself over the past few months and I’m taking it head on. I created a video for you about this crazy making commitment to struggle. Watch it here and create more ease now.

It is high time that we choose ease in our own lives over struggle. Won’t you join me?

With unstoppable enthusiasm & great love,

 

 

P.S. Want to spend a weekend with me? I SO want to spend a weekend with you, your Inner Mean Girl and your Inner Wisdom!

>>Go here for all the deets<<

Oh my goodness am I getting SO excited for my upcoming weekend Inner Mean Girl Reform School LIVE retreat at Kripalu. It’s fast approaching on April 12th-14th. Want to join me?

It’s the first and only time Christine Arylo and I will teach Inner Mean Girl Reform School LIVE this year… and we’d LOVE to spend the weekend reforming your inner critics so that voice of Inner Wisdom can come screaming through with power and authority.

Bring your Inner Achievement Junkies, Perfectionists, Comparison Queens, Doing Addicts, Drama Queens, Loveless LuLus, and more… we are ready to love them into new jobs!! Break free of self-sabotage. Over the course of the weekend, you will be able to…

- Stop being so hard on yourself – Give yourself a break and permission to relax and stop driving yourself so hard
- Tell the difference between the voice of your inner critic & fear and your inner wisdom & intuition – so you can turn down the volume on your IMG whenever you want and stop wasting time, energy and money stressing
- Talk to your intuition and use her to guide your life – so you always make choices that are GREAT for you.
- Stop comparing yourself, judging yourself and setting unrealistic expectations – and START celebrating your gifts and accomplishments.
- Find your center – quickly — when you experience overwhelm, anxiety or stress so they don’t overtake your attitude or your life.
- Find compassion for yourself when things don’t go perfectly – and really believe you are doing the best you can.

It’s going to be fun!

Women who master self compassion are happier and more successful. And that is the Truth. Word.

Read more & register now: www.InnerMeanGirlReformSchool.com

Leave me a comment below about your commitment to EASE!

The Wake-Up Call Show: I Quit!

Dear One,

If you’re anything like me, knowing when to say when is often a challenge. I mean, if you love someone shouldn’t you be able to make the relationship work? If you believe in the vision, shouldn’t you stick it out until that vision becomes a reality? Good people, virtuous people, inspiring people never quit.

Or do they?

When is quitting, walking away, crying ‘UNCLE!’, the most loving thing you can do?

And when does staying, toughing it out, pushing through it become an act of self-sabotage and self-torture?

Enter: my daughter’s brand spanking new public Montessori charter school.

The vision? Amazing.
The teachers? Exceptional.
The parent community? Inspiring.
The reality of the day to day life for my daughter? Terrifying. (Really.)

I remember sending her off for her first day of kindergarten in the Fall of last year. She was so filled with enthusiasm and glee. Here we were being pioneers, hopping on board the maiden voyage through uncharted territory in such a diverse community. The seas started getting rough when her head teacher ended up on medical leave before the holiday break. Her classroom filled with kindergartners, 1st and 2nd graders began to spiral out of control. Behaviors began to escalate, kids were acting out, work stopped getting done and teachers started looking like the walking dead. Things were getting unsafe for our daughter.

So what did I do? I enrolled my inner activist, my inner fixer, and organized volunteers. We had parents in the classroom to help every day and I myself started volunteering multiple days a week. Before I knew it my life had been hijacked…it was all consuming. The organizing, the email chains, the meetings with the principal. Not to mention the sleepless nights, the sheer anxiety, the feelings of sorrow for the kids that were acting out in crazy ways (think throwing stuff, kicking teachers and running out the classroom) and the pit in my stomach when I dropped off my daughter not knowing if she was going to be in harm’s way. (Please note that this account is specific to my daughter and her classroom at the school. Other classrooms I hear are doing fantastic, so please take my experience as just that…mine.)

Perhaps you can relate? Maybe you’re in a relationship that you KNOW isn’t right anymore? Or you’ve remained one year (or ten years) too long at that “golden handcuffs” job? Or you’ve outgrown the city you live in like 20 years ago?

So how do you know when to say when? What are the signs that it’s time to yell “I QUIT!” at the top of your lungs? Here’s what I’ve discovered on my own journey and through coaching lots of clients over the past 13 years:

It’s Time to QUIT

It’s Time to STAY

When you think of leaving, you feel relieved.

When you think of leaving, you feel regretful.

Your trusted loved ones look at you like you’re crazy.

Your trusted loved ones feel inspired by you.

You’re pretending not to know it’s time to leave.

You’re pretending not to know it’s time to trust.

You feel worried, anxiety ridden & hopeless.

You feel nervous, excited and optimistic.

Leaving feels loving.

Leaving feels like sabotage.

You need permission to quit.

You need permission to stay.

Staying feels insane.

Staying feels brave.

 

Please note: you may fall into the It’s Time to Stay category today and 3 months (or 3 days or 3 minutes) from now find yourself in the It’s Time to Quit place. This is about following your Inner Wisdom!

For me and my husband, once we found out that our head teacher had resigned, we immediately knew it was time to leave. So we did just that. Annabella started a new school yesterday, and as we sat there observing her sing “I’m a Little Teacup” with her classmates, I felt choked up. Ah…this is what kindergarten is supposed to feel like. Like a fuzzy blanket on a chilly morning.

And then I went home and sobbed for the kids in this country who will never have that experience in their public school (or even at home). I will keep supporting a major revolution in public schools in this country and her old school’s vision,, following my Inner Wisdom, making the biggest difference I can. While still putting my daughter’s needs and well being first. What I know is that I can’t BE the change if I’m filled with anxiety and panic, can I?

In the words of Kenny Rogers, “You got to know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to walk away, know when to run.” (Insert fabulous dance break here.)

What about you? Where do you need permission to quit in your life? Where do you know in your heart it’s time to stay? Let me know your thoughts below :)

Filled with peace of mind,

 

 


P.S. Especially for all HIGH ACHIEVING women and women aching to break out of the GOLDEN HANDCUFFS
, join me TONIGHT at 5pm PT/8pm ET for my special tele-jam with my soul sister, Christine Arylo:

“Trading your Golden Handcuffs & Achievement Junkie Habits for a Golden Life”

This call will inspire you to really GET the golden keys to breaking free and setting up a life that truly nourishes you.

GO HERE to register now to attend live or grab the recording.

 

The Wake-Up Call Show: You Belong, Dear One!

Dear One,

I’ve been doing a lot of volunteering at my daughter, Annabella’s, school. Her school operates on the principles of Positive Discipline, as does our family. One of the cornerstones is that we all need a sense of belonging and significance. And when we feel insignificant or that we don’t belong, we act out.

What does acting out look like to you? Maybe it shows up as procrastination, rebellion, over-eating, or throwing a major tantrum?

Join me today on my LIVE Wake-Up Call Show webcast at 9am PT/12pm ET to talk about belonging, about how significant you are, and what to do when the “I don’t belong” Big Fat Lie has trapped you so you feel like you’re swimming in Vaseline.

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Can’t wait to be with you!

With enthusiasm,

 

 

 

P.S. Spots are filling up for our 2013 Inner Wisdom Golden Circle, so make sure to get your application in by tomorrow!

The Inner Wisdom Golden Circle is a 9-month Spiritual and Emotional Breakthrough program and is designed especially for women who are longing to join a tribe of like-minded women ready to come more fully into who they truly are, so they can go out into the world sharing their greatest gifts. Talk about belonging!!

>>Apply for the Inner Wisdom Golden Circle now<<

Let me know below how acting out shows up for you…and where you feel you DO belong!